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Permalink Reply by MyBestConsult on September 30, 2009 at 1:31pm

1st Idea for Consideration:

They should get to know each other well before considering marriage. One should ask him/herself this question, "Am I the kind of person he/she looking for as a soulmale?" They must be realistic about the problems that come with marriage by avoiding to live in the dream/fantacy of "Happily Ever After"... They should not take records of all the wrongs the other person did. Just remember love is about giving not receiving.

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Permalink Reply by MyBestConsult on September 30, 2009 at 1:34pm

2nd Idea for Consideration:

I totally agreed with you for the previous part but for the last sentence. I seem not to agree with you on point just giving not receiving. I think that giving and receiving should be equal. My point is that when you give him your true love, you will expect to receive his true love back to you. Otherwise you meet disaster at the time when and after your marriage. To me I think that both men and women need to love each other not only one party or one side before they marry and they must accept all conditions that each one have. The conditions are referred to personality, education, experience, family background and life style. For example if we love a man/woman and he/she also love him/her back but their life style is different from each other. Do you expect that they will have happiness after they married? This is just only one point, what about the other four points above? So finally if we have different living conditions and life style there will be a big problem. So we must be clear up-front before we start whether we could accept or not? What do you think? Any other idea?


MyBestConsult (MBC) said:

1st Idea for Consideration:

They should get to know each other well before considering marriage. One should ask him/herself this question, "Am I the kind of person he/she looking for as a soulmale?" They must be realistic about the problems that come with marriage by avoiding to live in the dream/fantacy of "Happily Ever After"... They should not take records of all the wrongs the other person did. Just remember love is about giving not receiving.

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Permalink Reply by Serey Vath on November 5, 2009 at 4:10pm

1. He or She should understand themselves first. Understand about their own tolerant in dealing with his/her partner's up-and-down.
2. Understand her partner's up-and-down so that you can question whether your tolerant can meet those demands.
3. Ask your partner to do the same whether he or she can tolerate your up-and-down or not.
4. Try to set goals in the future. Both financial and the way you live your lives. Both of your goals should be somehow on the similar line.
5. It's your decision to make!

Up-and-down referred to bad and good Attitudes, Behaviors, Friends, Works, and the way he or she lives, etc...

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Permalink Reply by vanvolak _ly on November 14, 2009 at 2:34pm

Just remember love is about giveing not receiving, yes good it is I ever told someone and yes but love must to forgive all of
mistake and must alive together for long life. Love without answer is hurt.

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Permalink Reply by Herbalife Cambodia on December 4, 2009 at 8:05am

Love is complicated if you do not know the rules.
when two people from the different family get together is another hard thing. at first you two can get along and nothing seem to stop you from love each other, no one can separate them but them and only them. This advise is for men, before you decide to get married to your love one.. Answer to the following questions:
1. Am you ready to take responsibility to a new family?
2 do you understand the real definition of extended family and nuclear family?
3. Are you ready financially?
4. Did you talk to your wife or husband to be to talk and set a family code between two of you?
5. Do you have leadership skill to lead and management the new family?
6. Are you clear about your new family finance and your parents finance?
7. Prepare preneuptual agreement is a must as an exit strategy in case love does not work.
8. Set Financial code as most couple fight because of financial issue.
9. Open bank account and set two specimen can cash money from bank.

these what i can share to you. Wish all of you a happy Family : feedback!

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Permalink Reply by Lybunthay on December 5, 2009 at 10:06am

what men and women need to do before they get marry?

As my experience, both men and women have to studies each other and they shold not jump to decision to get marry soon. The age for men to marry should be over 28, have stable job, salary or income could cover monthly expense and less some for saving. For girl, the age should be over....not sure, but should have job/ business (indepent finance)

No money no sustainable love.

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Permalink Reply by vanvolak _ly on December 6, 2009 at 3:52am

Before men and women decide marry they are should understanding all of they needs together. For me i accept marry with whom know my all mistake and can get it, but i easy to chang all mistake after i know him dont like, and the girl needs men true and give value for her only. When they clear together all above they are cannot live if not one part yes the time good for talk plan marry but not mean need to marry faster or slow only talk make sour for her/him waiting correct or not cause if they not show feeling heart face to face how come the love or sweet marry will come true?.cambo girl nature very understand how to take care her next family cause long history ago khmer lady the best housewife so the girl have rule good wife husband cannot go out, so whom want after marry his go aways? No no body want it. For me i think i learn alot about how to responsibility family cause my real family not success sine my mother have me to month on her body. So the life teach me what am not what i need what all everything, am i clear after marry i do not make my family broke like my father and mother did and my education skill i got a lot from school social friend own personal is top lady on leader. But dont know nowadays i still not men ask me marry ha ha maybe i very very good like this no one need cause men always dont like the girl much clever? Why? Clever is the basic cause her easy follow and help all her love work or thinking on the business. However am still no money in cash but cash in my brain can change a lot of money whenever i needs. All line i can connecting as well, conclude back to title of decide marry the men should choose the girl whom know much about leader work leader heart and how much her want to have relation with u and how much she understand about couple? If u can get the one is like i tell u mean u really lucky and quick to keep her on your hand dont make loose her k, wish all of friend here meet the true love and can marry with her and stay together forever no broke no leave no change no hurt.

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